I AM grateful to the Rev Michael Williams (Thought for the Week, Dec 3) for highlighting one of the classical teachings in the Hindu and Buddhist traditions that we should not cling to our desires, no matter how good they are. Life has to be lived here and now.

But there is one desire that needs clinging to -- and that is to keep oneself and others happy.

Coming up to Christmas time, some of my Christian friends often remind me, in a sarcastic albeit nice way, that Hindus enjoy two helpings of celebrations annually -- one at Diwali and the other at Christmas! And I say to them, why not?

Hinduism provides a wide latitude of freedom and tolerance to accept and respect other faiths readily. Christianity welcomes this relationship and Hindus become attached to it by wanting to enjoy Christmas themselves. Equally, it is very pleasing to see some Christians taking part in Diwali celebrations.

This desire to be happy and wanting to see others happy has to be in a non-materialistic way.

It is a desire, which is good, which feels good within, something you would want to embrace to and not let go. It is the true spirit of Christianity, of the Hindu philosophy of the "world as one family".

Let us enjoy Christmas in the only true way -- by putting our hearts into it together!

Uttambhai D Mistry

Chairman

Bolton Hindu Forum

Westland Avenue

Bolton