A FAMILY have paid tribute to a 31-year-old with a 'heart of gold' who tragically took his own life

Arron Whalley was described as a ‘gentle giant’ who would have done anything for anyone, following an inquest into his death.

Arron of Albert Road, Farnworth died on Tuesday, September 14 last year.

Arron worked as a dog handler security guard, and has been described as a ‘real dogs guy’, and loved his dog Bruno.

His mum Maxine Whalley said that he had a ‘heart of gold’ and would do ‘anything for anybody’ but ‘wouldn’t ask for help if he needed it’.

She added: “Arron was my world, he was my first born and from being a baby everyone loved him, he had so many friends from very different backgrounds but treated them all the same.

"He found time for everyone and respected everyone's differences, he really was the life and soul of every party, night out, get together, he is still very much missed by everyone.

“He was always there for his friends and would drop everything if they needed help. 

"Many of his friends have said how he saved them from the same fate he suffered and wished they could have done the same for him.”

His stepfather Ian Buckley said that hundreds of people came to his funeral, which was complete with Rolls Royces and fireworks, because he was ‘loved by so many’.

In the lead up to his death Arron had lost his ‘beloved’ dog Bruno, and a friend, as well as experiencing a ‘break down’ in his relationship.

The inquest heard that Arron had battled with his mental health and on occasion suffered with depression and anxiety.

He had been referred to Greater Manchester’s Mental Health Hospital (GMMH) by his GP.

Deborah Lowe, well being practitioner at GMMH said: “We received a referral from Arron’s GP and we had a telephone chat to decide what level of support was needed.

“Arron discussed a long standard history of depression.

“He said he would talk to close people around him should he feel overwhelmed.”

Arron sought help through cognitive behaviour therapist and registered mental health nurse, Sean Lovell, where his mood was assessed regularly over a few months.

Mr Lovell said: “He felt that the mirtazapine (medication) was causing more harm than good.

“He felt he was unpredictable in his moods.

“I advised that he needed to talk to his GP about what would be a suitable alternative.

“We were getting to the end of therapy, which is normally 16 sessions.

“I was happy with Arron’s progress.

“He was looking forward and making plans for the future and positive about his relationship and moving on from the death of his dog.”                                   

His grandma, Lynda Whalley, found him in his bedroom, with a note, and called 999 as soon as she could.

She said: “He was like a son to me rather than a grandson.

“I love him and miss him deeply.”

Assistant Coroner, Rachel Syed, said: “I want to offer my heartfelt condolences to all of you.

“Any inquest is difficult but under these tragic circumstances it is even harder.”

Returning a conclusion of suicide, Ms Syed, said: “I was told that Arron was a gentle giant, was very liked, and would have done anything for anyone.

“He was known to the mental health services.

“And very sadly the medical cause of death that I accept is hanging.

“I am satisfied that there is sufficient evidence to record one of suicide.

“He had tried to get help on previous occasions.

“He lost his friend and his dog and had a breakdown in his relationship.

“I hope that the family can now focus on the wonderful memories that they have of Arron rather than his mental health conditions.”

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